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If you're going to a party, would you prefer to be overdressed or underdressed?

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Marked as Best! October 21, 2009 09:28 PM
Actually, I'd prefer to be perfectly dressed, but wouldn't we all? Since that isn't an option, I'll have to say overdressed. If you're overdressed, you will stand out, but likely in a positive way. If, however, you show up to a black tie affair in casual clothes, there isn't much you can say or do not to make a negative impression.

Of course, there are the extremes of being either. Examples would be showing up to a frat party in a ball gown or showing up to a ball in jeans and a t-shirt. You have to err on the side of caution when you're not sure what to wear, but being slightly overdressed is always preferable, in my opinion.

Looking your absolute best at all times in social situations gives an impression that you care about yourself and what others think of you. If you seem confident enough to dress up a little for casual affair, and not let it bother you, you will definitely draw more positive than negative attention, which will boost your self-confidence, and make you more pleasant to be around. Being comfortable with yourself, what you wear, and who you are is very sexy and appealing.
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October 25, 2009 10:49 PM
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October 21, 2009 09:25 PM
Always over dressed! I turned up to a party in a little black number with cute black heels and a clutch bag where everyone were wearing trainers and t-shirts once. I couldn't care less because I felt sexy. :0) Never worry what others will think. Being individual is much more fun than following the crowd.

Now pop that ball gound on. ;0)
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October 21, 2009 09:41 PM
Overdressed. In fact, depending on the occasion, sometimes I overdress on purpose. The trick is to only overdress by one "notch" or category rather than really looking out of place. When people wear running shoes, I do a designer driver. When people where suits and ties, I add a pocket square and cuff links. It's the best way to stand out in a crowd where, to a degree, everyone is trying to stand out.
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October 22, 2009 03:31 AM
I'd far prefer to be overdressed. I tend to err on the dressier side anyway; I just don't feel comfortable going out in sweatpants or the like. In other words, I feel that if I stand out for being overdressed, it'd give a better impression of me than if I stand out for being underdressed! Not that this is ideal, necessarily, but that's how it is.

The other aspect of this is that I have this secret love of fancy clothes. It upsets me a bit, inside, that there are fewer and fewer occasions where formal wear is considered appropriate. I'm not for enforcing what to wear, but ball gowns are gorgeous! The older the better. Jeans just don't stack up.
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October 22, 2009 04:11 AM
I believe overdressed. When you outshine your surroundings that is a positive memory, if you look dowdy or below other people they will remember that too.
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October 22, 2009 10:58 PM
That's easy. Overdressed because worst case scenario you look wicked sharp. If you go to a nice place like my friend Dylan who went to a really nice place for a party in a Run DMC shirt, and everyone was wearing dress clothes. He looked like a goon.
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October 23, 2009 11:18 AM
Either could be uncomfortable, but I'd prefer to be overdressed. First, it would let people know that I do know how to dress up since I usually wear jeans and T's. I could always slip off a few accessories if I stood out too much, and if not, then I'd just look really good and maybe other guests would wonder why they didn't have enough sense to dress a little better. To be underdressed, even unintentionally, would make people think I was a slob all the time, not just at home. I will wear sweats to the grocery store if I don't feel like putting my jeans back on. It's just to get food; I don't generally care what other people think of my appearance but I do try to dress appropriately for social occasions.
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October 23, 2009 05:11 PM
When there is a party, a person always dressed his/her best, I supposed (as far as that person thinks). Everyone dresses and goes to the party appropriately dressed as far as one is aware. The people at the party will be the one who can tell if you are overdressed or underdressed, vocally or just keeping it to themselves, or maybe you'll notice them whispering before you approach or when you passed them by. Some people want to make a statement or stand out in a crowd which is great when you get a positive feedback.
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