This conundrum, between the schools right to have a dress code and an individuals right to self expression, is worthy of pondering. They both promote positive outcomes. Obviously a school should be able to have a dress code. For example, you must wear clothes. We also value self expression. We encourage creativity and protect the individuals right to be different. None of us expect everyone to be identical. Each person's strengths should be promoted.

North Cobb High School's dress code, "prohibits students from wearing clothing that may contribute to a disruption of school functions". The school is saying that Escobar's "style of dress had caused a fight between students at the school". They gave him a choice, conform to the dress code or consider home schooling.

Escobar states that how he dresses reflects who he is and he doesn't want to dress more "manly". He has chosen to quit school instead of conforming to the dress code. He says that he wants, "to get the message out there that because this is who (he is, he) can't get an education."

I side with the school in this situation. They have enforced their policy. After all what good is a policy if it is not followed? Why have one at all? They are within their rights to ask him to conform or leave. Escobar had a choice and he chose to quit. It was his choice and not "who he is" that is denying him an education. If he doesn't agree with the dress code then he should have the policy reviewed and try to have it changed. Conforming is part of living in society. This lesson was learned in the Sixties. Rebelling against the establishment did not work. A wise person will conform to society in order to transform society. I hope Escobar's notoriety does not keep him from learning this valuable lesson.