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how can you make your mother trust you when she found out you do drugs

my sister got introuble so she tild my mother i was doing drugs how can i prove that i can be trusted again
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October 28, 2009 07:01 PM
Well, if you are doing illicit drugs, consider getting your mom's direct help to stop doing drugs. Ask her to help you. Talk to her about it. If she helps you through the process of getting clean, she will learn to trust you again.
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October 28, 2009 07:15 PM
Trust is a serious thing for parents and children alike. I've gone through some serious trust issues with my mother and the only thing I can say is that trust is earned, and you must earn it back. I don't know what drugs you do or how much but the amount of trust you must earn is going to be based on how severe your problem is. lgalatea was right when he/she said that your mom will trust you more if you let her help you stop. If you do not want to stop and your mother doesn't accept your ways then the only thing that is going to make her trust you for now is lies, which always fall through in the end.
Good luck
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October 28, 2009 07:51 PM
I had that problem and let me tell you it is HARD to do. But what I started with was doing more chores around the house, being more active about things. I tried to stay home more often and I would sit down and watch TV or a movie with here...try to show that my main interest isn't drugs it's family....took a couple months but it worked. good luck...
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