Conundrum Next Conundrum
A guy my friend was dating broke up wit her. She was really starting to fall for him and wants to know how she can get him back.
My friend and the guy had been going out for 5 months. He broke up with her because he feels they don't see each other enough and that she acts different when she's around her friends. He was really into her, I could tell when they were around each other, and she was really starting to fall for him. He didn't even confront her with what he was feeling before he broke it off. She wants to know what she can do to get him back. Should she even try to get him back? or just move on?
Interesting Question?
Yes (0)
No (0)
Email to a friend |
RSS
2 answerers thought this was unfair.
Answers (2)
November 21, 2009 01:14 PM
http://www.howtodothings.com/family-and-relationships/a4738-how-to-get-your... Helpful Answer?
(0)
(0)
Permalink |
Report
I think if your friend is really in love with him, then she should try to win him back. If she has exhausted her efforts in winning him back and still he won't come back, then this will only show that he is no longer interested and a sign for your friend to move on. At least she won't have any regrets because she did try to win him back but failed instead.
I found some tips which might serve as a guide on how to win him back. You can read the full details at the source.
----quote---
1.Demonstrate that you've learned from past missteps.
2.Remind him, through your actions, why he fell in love with you in the first place.
3.Be there to support him.
4.Win over his friends.
5.Reminisce.
6.Think of the pastimes and activities that were central to your former relationship.
7.Look your best.
8.Be positive.
9.Don't be too obvious in expressing your desire to get him back.
10.On that note... your strategy should be to start in the realm of subtlety, and slowly turn up the heat.
11.No drunken phone calls!
12.Do you really want him back?
---end of quote--
Source(s):
I found some tips which might serve as a guide on how to win him back. You can read the full details at the source.
----quote---
1.Demonstrate that you've learned from past missteps.
2.Remind him, through your actions, why he fell in love with you in the first place.
3.Be there to support him.
4.Win over his friends.
5.Reminisce.
6.Think of the pastimes and activities that were central to your former relationship.
7.Look your best.
8.Be positive.
9.Don't be too obvious in expressing your desire to get him back.
10.On that note... your strategy should be to start in the realm of subtlety, and slowly turn up the heat.
11.No drunken phone calls!
12.Do you really want him back?
---end of quote--
http://www.howtodothings.com/family-and-relationships/a4738-how-to-get-your... Helpful Answer?
(0)
(0)
Permalink |
Report
Reply
November 22, 2009 04:32 PM
From one romantic to another. Helpful Answer?
(0)
(0)
Permalink |
Report
From a male standpoint, I guess she could try to be friends with him again. Try to win him over by being there for him whenever he needs her. If she'd beginning to fall for him, I'd say that she's having a hard time to move on. Give it another try. Love is sweeter the second time around, they always say. If she really loves him, then do whatever it takes. I hope this helps.
Source(s):
From one romantic to another. Helpful Answer?
(0)
(0)
Permalink |
Report
Reply