If you don't feel any real connection, you should stop seeing him before he gets the wrong idea. Sometimes it does take time to establish a real connection. In which case, something inside of you would be telling you that there is more to this person, just give it time. But if you are seriously dreading going out with this guy again (regardless of how nice he is) because you're in for another night of emptiness and disconnection from everything he says, then break it off. There's no point in wasting anymore of your time or his. Sorry, but it's just that simple.

PS- Tell him you don't think it's going to work out, especially since yall have had 3 dates already. It would be incredibly rude and cowardly to just stop calling and answering his calls. Please don't do that to him.... Give him the courtesy of closure.

Good luck!

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after a couple of dates, still not working out - means its not gonna work out. dont get caught up thinking that he's cute.. there are hundreds of guys around.. you'll come across someone much better and lets hope things work out.

All the best.

I think it depends on the entire situation. You haven't provided much detail. Are they casual dates, social events, community dates, private romantic dates? There is a difference between going to the club with a bunch of friends vs dinner and a movie alone. Have you kissed him, made out with him? All these things count. Usually the instant loin vibrations and pounding heart upon initial contact are called LUST. Love is not instant. True deep feelings are not either. They take time to build. Do you have common interests, goals, dreams, tastes in food, clothing decor, movies music? Are there things he already does that you will NEVER be able to tolerate such as no socks, spitting, doing drugs, drinking, smoking, cussing etc.
After only 3 dates, I would say, if he is interesting and you actually have fun together then take it down a notch from "dating" to hanging out. Make sure he is aware it is not exclusive but give the guy a chance. Remember, you should NEVER be with someone that you feel the need to change or that you feel the need to change for. If you can't take each other at face value then don't waste the time. You can't change some one unless they want to chance themselves. We also shouldn't lose who we are just to make someone else happy.

I don't believe you should continue dating him. Chemistry is a major part of a successful relationship. If you continue to date him romantically, you'll begin to try and change him, which is a fruitless, frustrating and ultimately horrible endeavour. You should explain to him that you don't feel there is any chemistry there and that you would be better suited as friends. Honesty is the best policy.

Hope this helps!