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November 28, 2009 10:53 PM
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It depends on how the relationship ended and how you feel towards each other after the breakup. If you broke up with your partner because of reasons like cheating or fell-out-of-love experience, then I think getting back together isn't going to work. The more painful the breakup is or the more terrible the reason is, the more that you're going to feel that you shouldn't get back together.
There are cases when one of you would feel that you still love the other person but this other person had enough. Then it's time to let go. Time to move on.
But if you broke up because of a simple misunderstanding, and you both love each other still, then giving it a second try is okay.
There are cases when one of you would feel that you still love the other person but this other person had enough. Then it's time to let go. Time to move on.
But if you broke up because of a simple misunderstanding, and you both love each other still, then giving it a second try is okay.
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November 30, 2009 04:56 AM
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I'm 31 and unmarried, I've been in several long-term relationships. If your partner wants you to change, and you're happy the way you are, then no, I wouldn't get back together. I think you need to be with someone who you are attracted to physically, emotionally, and intellectually. If you only click on one or two levels, the third can be a deal-breaker. I'm emotionally distant, maybe that has to do with my choice in women. My emotional distance has been a deal-breaker in several relationships. It's not that I don't have emotions about my partners, it's more that I don't share those emotions with them. I'm okay with me, so if it doesn't work out, it's not really my problem. I can't stroke someone's ego for the rest of my life.
I can say though, that I'm not moving in with another girlfriend unless we're engaged.
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I can say though, that I'm not moving in with another girlfriend unless we're engaged.
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