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When ending a relationship, what do you dread most, starting over or being alone?

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Marked as Best! November 21, 2009 02:45 AM
Starting over gets easier as you go. The time spent reflecting on how you ended the relationship is what hurts. All the words that were said in anger not being able to say what was really hurting you. The relationship ended because you were unhappy. Most likely you were already alone . Sometimes their is nothing worse than being in a room with someone and still feel alone. Starting over dosent mean the end of who you are or were but it allows for healing reflection and change
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November 21, 2009 03:27 AM
Being alone is very hard for me. I think that would be the worst part.
Starting over would come with time.
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November 22, 2009 04:36 PM
I don't like to start over because I know there's a chance that I could get hurt again. If you open your heart and soul to someone, you end up being vulnerable at times. But what can I say? Everyone's has been burnt once too many, but still they continue to gamble, thinking that this might be the right person. Oh, well. As a passage says, "It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved." Peace!
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November 22, 2009 08:27 PM
I wouldn't really dread either. I am not afraid to be alone, and that is not an issue. Starting over is not something I am afraid of or that I dread...sometimes that can be the exciting part.

However, being hurt again is what would keep me stagnant.
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