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November 02, 2009 06:26 PM
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I can relate to this... but I actually gave him greeting cards not really gifts.
For several times, I left a card telling him what-nots and what I feel about him. This happens for like 4 months? We were good friends, he even told me about the card he's receiving! HAHA! He's just laughing about it while saying he has a stalker. XD
Then months after, I told him, through another card who his 'stalker' is. At first he can't believe it cause we're friends and that he's even telling me about the cards. At first, I admit I started to feel awkward near him. But our friendship didn't really suffered for what happened. He's still there for me when I need help though our relationship didn't become how I wanted it to be during those times.
UNTIL, three years later... he confessed that he fell in love with me. ^^ I never really expected that one happening. I thought I have no chance for him and we'll just be friends.
Next month, we'll be celebrating our second anniversary! Yay!!! ^^
For several times, I left a card telling him what-nots and what I feel about him. This happens for like 4 months? We were good friends, he even told me about the card he's receiving! HAHA! He's just laughing about it while saying he has a stalker. XD
Then months after, I told him, through another card who his 'stalker' is. At first he can't believe it cause we're friends and that he's even telling me about the cards. At first, I admit I started to feel awkward near him. But our friendship didn't really suffered for what happened. He's still there for me when I need help though our relationship didn't become how I wanted it to be during those times.
UNTIL, three years later... he confessed that he fell in love with me. ^^ I never really expected that one happening. I thought I have no chance for him and we'll just be friends.
Next month, we'll be celebrating our second anniversary! Yay!!! ^^
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November 02, 2009 09:49 PM
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Well... when I was in middle-school (called it Junior High back then) I had a crush on Alice B., the most fascinating and intelligent and beautiful girl in the seventh grade who hung out with the guys in the ninth grade... but she though I was a skinny, buck-toothed pencil-necked science geek... which I was.
On her birthday I took all the money I had saved, $150, which was a lot of money for a 13 year old back then, and bought a gold necklace with a pearl pendant, and I had my friend Peter drop it in front of her at lunch, saying it was from a secret admirer.
She opened it, looked at the labeling and the certification, showed it to her constant companion Cindy, they wondered at for a bit, and then Cindy caught me watching a bit too intently from across the room, whereupon she screamed loud over the whole cafeteria, "Oh my Gawd! Piglet bought Alice a gold-pearl necklace for her birthday!"
Whereupon Alice made a big scene out of how revoltingly disgusting is was, and the two of them made a theatrical production out of taking it into the girl's can and flushing it down the toilette.
That's when I learned that, if you're going to give secret gifts, it's not a secret unless it stays a secret, otherwise when it's found out, all things can go to hell much worse than if you'd just handed it over in public and taken the humiliation in the first place.
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On her birthday I took all the money I had saved, $150, which was a lot of money for a 13 year old back then, and bought a gold necklace with a pearl pendant, and I had my friend Peter drop it in front of her at lunch, saying it was from a secret admirer.
She opened it, looked at the labeling and the certification, showed it to her constant companion Cindy, they wondered at for a bit, and then Cindy caught me watching a bit too intently from across the room, whereupon she screamed loud over the whole cafeteria, "Oh my Gawd! Piglet bought Alice a gold-pearl necklace for her birthday!"
Whereupon Alice made a big scene out of how revoltingly disgusting is was, and the two of them made a theatrical production out of taking it into the girl's can and flushing it down the toilette.
That's when I learned that, if you're going to give secret gifts, it's not a secret unless it stays a secret, otherwise when it's found out, all things can go to hell much worse than if you'd just handed it over in public and taken the humiliation in the first place.
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November 03, 2009 03:00 AM
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Not a gift per se, but I wrote a "love note" to a senior guy when I was a freshman. I signed it as a secret admirer because I was nervous about his response to me. We corresponded via letters for a week or so, and then I agreed to meet him after school to reveal myself. We ended up dating briefly, but ultimately, I realized he was a jerk.
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