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At your sister-in-law-to-be's bachelorette party, you catch her getting some "private time" in her bedroom with the male stripper. Should ..

... you say something to her soon-to-be husband (your brother) or do you keep her secret?
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ai-ai
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Marked as Best! November 23, 2009 10:08 AM
Since we have hi-tech gadgets now, I would take an evidence and I would then ask my brother if he really loves the woman. And then advise him first about everything in a nice manner. This may sound complicated but I have to warn my brother that whatever happens, he should stay calm and accept the fact. And then I would show him what I have found about her wife-to-be. He's my brother and I don't want him to have a wife who cannot be trusted. I think he also doesn't want to have a wife like that.
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November 23, 2009 05:26 AM
Depends on your relationship with your brother. Most people would pick and protect family over a veritable stranger. If it were me I'd want to know.

But if both of them have an open relationship or an agreement to fool around all they want until they actually get married, then you'd just be sticking your nose in where it's not wanted.

Ask him.

(Hypothetical questions are much harder to answer.)
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cheapgamer
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November 23, 2009 04:22 PM
I would chide her about it and see what she said. Perhaps she will confirm that it was just a private dance. . . perhaps more. Ask her if her would be husband knows or cares.
You may find his bachlor party had a similar moment . . . The tough thing is that couples have different thresholds for what is OK at pre-wedding bashes. More then a few couples I know considered the bachlor/bachlorette the last time it was OK to have a fling before getting married.
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albanian
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November 25, 2009 03:13 AM
It's a bachelorette party. She is supposed to be having a wild fling before settling down to marry! Mind your own business.
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amybrowne3
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November 25, 2009 12:25 PM
I am old fashioned, and if the stripper is giving her a lap dance it should be in front of others. If its more then a lap dance you bet I would make sure it got back to my brother.

I would get proof of this before going to talk with my brother. If she is cheating on him before they are married this is a bad thing. He may have his suspicions about her already and as much as your proof will hurt perhaps it is what he needs.

I know how it is to have someone cheating on you, and I had to see proof before I believed, As much as seeing the proof hurt me I would share any proof I got.
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