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If people don't like you, what are some things you can do to help them change their minds?

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December 12, 2009 08:55 PM
If people don't like you, I guess it's their problem then, especially if you're not really doing anything wrong and they just feel like not liking you. We can't please everyone, so there's no way that everyone would like you. Usually those people who'll like you are the ones with the same interest that you have or those who aren't judgmental.

But if you know that there's really something wrong in what you're doing that's why they don't like you, maybe it's time to change. It isn't just to please these people but for yourself too. Like maybe they don't want you because for instance you smell bad (body odor), it's not healthy for you so in this case, you have to change your hygiene to become the better you. :) Maybe you're mean too that's why they hate you, so you have to change to become a better person. Again, this isn't to please them but for you, for a better you.

But if some people don't want you just because they feel like it, then don't get affected. You don't need these type of people anyway.
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December 12, 2009 09:14 PM
Avoid them , avoid confrontation and discussion with them , and when they say something you agree with make sure to support them.

Not everybody is liked by everyone, it,s just part of life, don't give them the power to affect you.
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December 13, 2009 03:12 AM
I don't try to change their minds. There are always going to be a certain number of people who don't like you, and a certain number who just don't care one way or the other. They don't dislike you, but they don't want to be your friend, either.

It's said out of every 100 people you meet, only two will like you enough to want to spend any appreciable amount of time with you. Concentrate on those two, and forget the rest. There really isn't anything you can do.
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December 13, 2009 07:09 AM
just do yourself ,read more books that's useful for u
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December 13, 2009 01:06 PM
I think I would not do anything to change their minds. I don't care what they feel about me, and nobody should. People have always disliked people for no reasons and if we start bothering about it, we shall soon go mad. Just leave them with their feelings and carry on with your business. That's the way of life. If you are on the right path, the same lot will like you someday.

Hope I was clear. Thanks
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December 14, 2009 03:37 PM
You do not have an obligation to make other people like you. You can not please everybody so be it. We all have likes and dislikes and whether we like it or not, we should accept that fact that we belong to their 'dislikes' list, lol.
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December 15, 2009 09:22 PM
I don't think you can "make" people like you. When you start trying to conform to ideas of the other person usually you end up losing your true self. You only become a pawn in their hands. Some people go against their own beliefs and go out of their way to accommodate others trying to get them to "like" them. In reality that person isn't liking you more they are simply taking advantage of you.

To thine own self be true! There are people who love you and like you and those people should be the ones you seek out. Look in the mirror daily and learn to love yourself and don't change that for anyone.
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