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If you found out that your husband secretly cross dressed would you stay with him?

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dtvrivera
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Marked as Best! December 08, 2009 03:14 AM
Yes I would, as long as he still loved me and was not interested in men now that he has become attuned to some of the joys of womanhood (including the sense of fashion). I don’t see how his new found interest would interfere with our marriage. Maybe now he could understand why I love shopping for clothes so much and that could be a new pastime that we could share together. However, I would try to have him cross-dress only in our home, if at all possible, so he would not jeopardize his future career in case some of his coworkers or clients saw him and found him to be less professional thereafter.
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thebandit
thebandit
December 07, 2009 09:59 PM
Of course I would. This is an incredibly trivial reason to break off even a casual relationship, let alone a marriage. My husband's aesthetic and/or sexual preferences are out of my control, and it's not my place to try to interfere or change them. It isn't as if he isn't attracted to me.
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kadyanne
kadyanne
December 08, 2009 03:09 AM
I think it's not a huge issue, like cheating is a bigger issue, but I think it would be the secrecy that would be more of a problem for me.
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dsaldridge
dsaldridge
December 08, 2009 05:06 AM
No, I would not. Not because he cross dressed, but because I'm his wife, and he felt like he had to hide it from me. I could never trust him again.
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owl
December 08, 2009 05:27 PM
Why not? It is not such a big issue and it is fine as long as he loves me and does justice to all his duties towards home, office and the society. Although I am his wife, he has all the rights to have personal preferences, likes and dislikes and his privacy.

Hope you understand. Thanks
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