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I'm dating this guy but i might be intrested in this other guy because he has thing that the guy i'm dating is missin, wich one do i pick?

The guy i'm dating is sweet, treats me nice, and we have fun together. But the guy i reccently met is a more intamit guy who's not afraid to get what he wants and is a good flirt, i like that; but i can also tell he's the cheating type, do i stay with the guy i have, or take a risk? because u don't kno how it will work out till you try it, right?
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Marked as Best! November 14, 2009 04:50 AM
I don't think it's a matter of picking--the most important issue is how long have you been dating guy #1 and how serious is it (does he think it's serious?).

Women love a little challenge so you are gravitating towards the guy who excites you more yet you have the feeling he'll cheat. Guy #1 is "nice" which in woman's terms is often "boring". Long term, "nice" wins out over "exciting" because eventually you'll have to settle down (or not!)

If you're young--which I think you may be--then date as much as you can so you can figure out what type of person suits you best. You might think guy #2 is more suited for you until you start to date him. He might not be that exciting after all.

However, you owe it to guy #1 to be honest and not date him anymore because he might be missing out on a great person who appreciates a fun, nice guy with less excitement and intimacy.

Good luck!
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November 14, 2009 05:03 AM
Which one should you pick? The one who can teach you how to spell. No, I am kidding.

It depends on what you want. If you want drama, pick the second one. If you want a mate, pick the first one.
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