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My house mate just told me that shes in love with a married man. The twist is that we all live together along with the man's wife.

At first I thought they were all close friends, but she told me they had sex once. She says she is totally in love with the man. But I don't see him leaving his wife. This has been going on for 4 years. Should I insist my friend do something or just let her be??
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December 09, 2009 03:36 PM
I would go to the husband. This will not remain a secret too long and so far they have been lucky. I would tell the husband the your friend told you about their extra activity and inform him that although it is none of your business, that if his wife asked you if you thought there was anything going on, that you would not protect him. he will probably be angry with your friend and break it off with her and if he doesnt then he deserves to get caught.
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December 09, 2009 09:07 PM
You need to let the wife now. If you were the spouse being cheated on wouldn't you want to know. I'm sorry but both are in error. The right thing to do would be to let her know. This is going to require some very thick skin...
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December 09, 2009 11:19 PM
My friend is completely and blindly in love with the guy. And he keeps telling her that he loves her, and goes to sleep with his wife every night. My goes to sleep crying most nights.What should I tell my friend thought..?? I was thinking of telling her to move out...??
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January 01, 2011 10:57 PM
Simple solution....you...your house mate (the one who loves the guy)....move the hell out!!! If she doesn't want to go with you...you move out. Why get caught in the middle of drama like that?
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