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Should one stay abroad to study (and eventually lose a boyfriend) or go back home for love (which is always uncertain)?

It's just my guess that long term relationship can't work in this case, he's not saying he would leave. It was half a year already and it will be another 6 months. I want to stay but I change my mind each week. That's why it's hard to believe my instinct..
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December 09, 2009 06:11 AM
It sounds like he was willing to wait On the other hand nothing is guarnteed. You may get a call saying he got into a car accident and died. Or you may find someone who wont treat you like he does and realize your too late. Im sure the schools abroad offer so much more than you could ever get in the states, thats why you left in the first place right? Have you been faithful? so many chioces and somehow you arnt mature enough to commit to anything but yourself. How will this affect me. What if he leaves me. In a relationship its not about you. This will be the first of many choices you make that either will or wont be correct. Its called becomming an adult. Focus on what will make you happy today for their might not be a tomorrow. Love is never uncertain, not if you are truly in love.
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December 09, 2009 04:19 PM
You should prioritize your studies because it is important at this moment. If you're really meant to be together then things will be okay later.
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