That is ridiculous, and probably not a constitutional term of probation. He is an adult, and whether or not he is dating someone is not relevant to any criminal activity. In fact, being treated like a little child like that and denying him healthy human contact will probably only increase his chances of re-offending. During a time that he should be learning how to be a gentleman, he will instead start to think of himself as an "outlaw," and as too "bad" to be around women. I hate to stereotype here, but a woman might even help him settle down. A great many men "age out" of criminal behavior in their early twenties, and having stable relationships with law-abiding women is probably part of the reason.

I think it's important that our legal punishments make sense and are proportionate to the crime. It's also important that we treat adults like they are adults, so they can learn to act responsibly. It sounds like this kid could use some counseling. He stole his foster parents' car and fled the state. His foster parents apparently went along with very tough sentencing (he's doing a year plus 3 years probation!). It sounds like he was not very loved during his life, and wanted to get away. He could be treated like an adult and made to understand the consequences, while also being helped to find a better path.

That judge is a self-righteous jerk. And if this guy is actually re-incarcerated for violating his probation while on a date, I hope he sues the state for everything he can get.