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Would you let an ex-boyfriend/girlfriend whom you ended the relationship with due to his/her severe drug problems back into your life?

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jillbeth
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Marked as Best! December 04, 2009 12:57 PM
Possiblly. It would depend on how serious he was to kick the habit for good, what steps he was taking to do so, and how he had treated me previously in the relationship. Recovering addicts often slip back into old habits, and I might be willing to deal with that, but if he had been abusive (even if he blamed his behavior on the drug problem) it's unlikely I would go back, just for my own safety and peace of mind.
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nano99
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December 04, 2009 02:41 PM
Dear,

It depends upon the circumstances if you think that your ex-boyfriend/girl friend is totally out from that addiction phase then you can start your relationship again forgetting the previous one as a nightmare. Because everyperson should be given a chance to rectify his/her mistakes what he/she did earlier. But he/she should be honest to you in this regards.

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December 08, 2009 04:50 AM
I did this once, and it was a disaster. I would never do it again. Just like any substance abuser, they are never cured. A relapse could occur at any time, and usually, it only gets worse with each successive relapse. I would never let someone like that back into my life again.
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