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You are adopted and later found out that you have a twin that your adoptive parents were not willing to take in along with you. Will you...

...confront your adoptive parents and try to find out why they decided to separate you from your sibling?
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lidyax2
lidyax2
December 21, 2009 07:16 AM
I will definitely ask for their reason and the circumstances around my adoption. Perhaps they had no means or fund to adopt 2 babies at once. Perhaps they were afraid they could not take care of 2 babies at once. What i would never do is to judge them. They have raised me and gave me love. For all but blood, they were my parents. It wouldn't be fair to be angry to them.
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cherise
cherise
December 22, 2009 01:57 AM
Oh! It would be so cool if I had a twin! But heck with confronting my adoptive parents about it.

I would get my adoptive parents to tell me which adoption agency they used. I would go to the adoption agency and let them know that I wanted to find my twin. In all liklihood, the adoption agency would be able to contact my long lost brother or sister for me!
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amybrowne2
amybrowne2
December 23, 2009 12:46 PM
I would ask about the adoption agency too, and look for my twin. I would not be upset at those parents who had adopted me because I understand how hard and expensive it is to raise kids.
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December 25, 2009 06:38 AM
Yes, I would ask about it. Getting an honest answer would be another dilemma.People who would do that do not have business adopting. I am sure it would cause emotional damage to both twins.
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