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Your 16 year old wants to travel Europe by him/herself to explore his/her roots. Do you allow him/her to do so?

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Marked as Best! December 22, 2009 03:54 PM
Traveling alone, be it to trace your roots or to explore new lands, is a very enriching experience. I believe that every young person should be encouraged to partake of such an experience; however, age 16 is perhaps too young. Regardless of their maturity level, traveling alone does carry certain exposure to risk, and 16 is, in my mind, not the appropriate age to be able to handle every issue that could arise.

If the desire to travel alone is strong at age 16, channel it. Guide them through a process of planning that first trip alone. Have them research where they want to go, places they could stay, evaluate different price ranges during different times of the year. Involve them in a savings effort to fund the trip. You could incentivize them further by offering to match whatever they saved.

By the above stated method, they can begin to enjoy the process of the trip from the time that they are 16 even if they do not actually take it until they are 18 or 19, an age that is more adequate for such an undertaking. For many people, myself included, the planning of a trip is a sizable portion of the fun.
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December 22, 2009 10:40 AM
I think 16 is too young to be doing that alone. Even staying with relatives, it would be a little much for me. I might allow a trip like that with a sibling, if I knew they'd be OK together, and as long as relatives were involved in the trip....
I know teenagers do amazing things all the time, but wow, you do have to be careful these days and I really think both males and females are at risk....

Here's a map showing the age of consent across Europe. It's a little lower than some would expect. It can cause difficulties for both tourists and locals, of either sex.

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/e/ef/Age_of_Consent.png

And here's a map showing the legal drinking age. Again, fairly low.
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/8/8c/Drinking_age_by_country.svg

Both maps from Wikipedia - these are worth linking.
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